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Developmental Strategies for Home Collection

Ages 0 - 24+ Years

Parents are a child's first and most important teachers and therapists. This collection of resources highlights the many ways parents and other caregivers can promote healthy development throughout childhood and adolescence, and into adulthood.

A dad with dark hair and glasses is cradling his smiling infant son, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), and leaning over him at the beach.
Supporting cognitive skills in babies

This article describes how parents and other caregivers can help their babies develop more advanced ways of thinking, learning, understanding, and solving problems.

A little boy with a congenital heart defect (CHD) is wearing an orange shirt and building with wooden blocks on a white table.
Supporting cognitive skills in young children

This article describes the many ways parents and other caregivers can build thinking, learning, and understanding skills in young children with congenital heart defects (CHDs).

Two blond children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) kneel next to a low wooden table, playing chess.
Supporting cognitive skills in middle childhood

Parents can engage their children in many activities and conversations to promote their development of thinking, learning, and problem solving. This article explains how.

Two teen girls with long black hair and congenital heart defects (CHDs) sit side by side in front of a couch and smile for a selfie.
Supporting cognitive skills in teens

Teens with congenital heart defects (CHDs) still have developing brains, and parents and caregivers can use these strategies to help them develop their skills in thinking, learning, and problem-solving.

A young woman with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a yellow shirt and a black vest and sits in a wheelchair, painting intently on an easel.
Supporting cognitive skills in young adults

Human brains continue to develop into adulthood, and people are always capable of learning and growing. Here are strategies to support thinking and learning in young adults.

A baby with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a pink diaper cover and lies on her stomach on a white blanket.
Promoting motor skills in babies

Parents and other caregivers can help babies with heart defects to get stronger, more flexible, more balanced, and more cooordinated. Here are some ideas.

A little girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wearing a white shirt is climbing up a red rope ladder at a playground.
Promoting motor skills in young children

Young children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) are sometimes delayed in learning to stand, walk, run, climb, and use their hands. These activities can help them make progress.

A child with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wearing a blue hoodie and a black fuzzy had joyfully jumps off a red clay path.
Building motor skills in middle childhood

During middle childhood, kids can continue to get better at using their hands and bodies. Parents and families can help them to reach their physical goals using these strategies.

A dad and his teen son, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), stand on a beach as the father shows the son how to play ping pong.
Promoting motor skills in teens

Even as their bodies reach maturity, teens with congenital heart defects (CHDs) can still develop physical strength and skills. These activities can help.

A dad in a black shirt and glasses holds a basketball and faces his young adult son, who has Down Syndrome and a congenital heart defect (CHD), as both laugh.
Supporting motor skills in young adults

Young adults can continue to learn new physical skills, and can work to maintain existing skills. Staying active and learning new things are important for maintaining physical and mental health. Here are ideas to support adult physical skills.

A grandfather wearing a white t shirt stands in front of trees, holding his infant grandson, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD) and is wearing a red shirt.
Building social skills in babies

Parents are usually a baby's first social relationship, and they play a critical role in supporting a baby's social development. Here are some tips.

A dad wearing a silver jacket and braids holds up his infant son, who is wearing a silver one piece suit and has a congenital heart defect (CHD).
Secure attachment and baby's social skills

By forging a secure attachment with their baby, parents and other caregivers can set the stage for the baby's healthy social development.

Two young children with congenital heart defects (CHDs)  sit on a wooden kitchen floor by a brick chimney, taking cookies out of a jar.
Building social skills in young children

Young children have a lot to learn about their social world, and parents are their best teachers. Here are some strategies and activities for building their social understanding.

Two girls with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sit on the pavement, talking and drawing with chalk.
Supporting social skills in middle childhood

As children enter the more peer-based social world of middle childhood, parents and caregivers can use these strategies to support their social understanding and social skills.

A mom with brown hair and a white shirt sits on a bed, cuddling her young daughter who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), a gray shirt, and dark bangs.
Strengthening parent-child attachment

Regardless of their child's age, parents can always work to build a more secure parent-child attachment. Secure attachments help children to develop strong social and emotional skills.

Two teens with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sit cross-legged on the floor next to a window, playing foosball.
Supporting social skills in teens

Even though teens are often highly focused on their peers, parents and other caregivers can still do a lot to build their social skills and social understanding.

Two young adults with congenital heart defects (CHDs) are wearing volunteer t shirts and sitting at a wooden table in front of a white bookcase.
Supporting social skills in young adults

Young adults continue to face new social challenges, and often need to continue working on their social skills. Here are ideas to help.

A mom with long black hair holds up her infant daughter, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), black hair, and a pink flowered shirt.
Promoting language skills in babies

Well before they can talk, babies are actively learning language. Parents and caregivers can support their language development with these activities.

A mom with a white sweater and brown afro whispers into the ear of her young daughter, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), curly black hair, and a black dress. They stand in front of a stone house.
Building language skills in young children

As they follow their daily routines, parents and other caregivers can use these strategies to promote language development in young children with congenital heart defects (CHDs).

A mom with curly blond hair lies on her stomach on a bed next to her daughter, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), curly brown hair, and pink shirt.
Promoting language skills in middle childhood

Children's language skills continue to develop throughout childhood, and parents can help children to learn more sophisticated skills with these strategies.

Three teen girls with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sit side by side in front of a row of green trees, smiling at the camera.
Supporting language skills in teens

Parents and cargivers can help their teens with congenital heart defects (CHDs) to develop more complex language skills. These activities can help.

A woman with a congenital heart defect (CHD) lies in bed with a brown dog across her lap, reading a book.
Building adult language skills

Young adults can always learn more language, and more sophisticated language, and these strategies can help.

A mom holds up her infant daughter with a congenital heart defect (CHD), who wears a pink shirt and a pink bow.
Supporting emotional learning in babies

Parents and caregivers can help their babies start to understand and regulate their emotions. These strategies can promote healthy emotional learning.

A little girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a yellow raincoat and smells a seedling in a plug of dirt, while her father with a brown bear leans over her with his eyes closed.
Supporting emotional learning in young children

Parents play a critical role in helping young children begin to recognize, express, and regulate their own emotions, and to respond well to the emotions of others.

A mother in a white shirt and dark hair leans over and cuddles her son with a congenital heart defect (CHD), who is lying back on a white couch.
Promoting self-regulation skills in young children

Children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sometimes struggle to regulate their emotions and behavior. Parents and caregivers can help them to develop self-regulation with these strategies.

A mother and her daughter with a congenital heart defect (CHD) sit in a butterfly position on yoga mats, facing each other and smiling.
Supporting emotional development in kids

Parents and caregivers can help kids with heart defects to develop emotional intelligence and emotional learning.

A dad and his daughter, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD) sit on a wooden floor in front of a big window, both playing the guitar.
Supporting emotional learning in teens

Teens often need guidance and support in learning to express and manage their emotions, and to understand and respond to other people's emotions. Parents can use these strategies to help them.

Three young women with congenital heart defects (CHDs) wearing athletic clothes stand with their arms around each other.
Supporting emotional learning in young adults

Young adults with congenital heart defects (CHDs) continue to face new emotional challenges, and can continue to develop more advanced emotional understanding and regulation skills.

A teddy bear lies in a green hospital bed, showing how a child with a congenital heart defect (CHD) on ECMO would look.
Supporting kids on ECMO

Parents and other family members can continue to offer care and comfort to their child during ECMO treatment. Read how.

Two parents' hands hold their baby's hand.
Supporting kids during VAD treatment

During VAD treatment, parents and caregivers can use these strategies to help their child to cope, grow, and learn.

A mother and grandmother sit on a couch, cuddling with their little boy who has a congenital heart defect (CHD) and is waiting for a transplant.
Supporting Children through Heart Transplant

Undergoing a heart transplant can place a strain on the whole family. This article offers guidance on how parents can support a child through the process.

A little girl with a red shirt and short blond hair and a congenital heart defect (CHD) lies on her stomach on a bed, playing on her computer.
Helping kids cope with hospital stays

Parents and caregivers can use these strategies to help children to cope with hospital stays, and to continue learning and having fun.

A father with a beard sits on a hospital chair holding his baby with a congenital heart defect (CHD) skin-to-skin against his chest.
Kangaroo care for babies with heart defects

Most babies with congenital heart defects (CHDs) can be safely held skin-to-skin. When parents are able to hold their babies, they can often improve their functioning and healing.

A mother wearing a red shirt holds her sleeping baby with a congenital heart defect (CHD) on her back with a green wrap.
Promoting healthy sleep in babies

Parents and caregivers can help their babies to establish a good sleep schedule, and to get the sleep they need.

A little girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wearing a pink and orange dress and holding a blue stuffed animal is sleeping in her stroller.
Supporting healthy sleep in young children

Young children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sometimes struggle with sleep. Parents can use these strategies to work towards better sleep habits.

A little girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD) sleeps on a couch with her head on her dog.
Supporting sleep in kids and teens

Kids with heart defects sometimes have sleep schedules or sleep habits that do not work well within their families. Parents can use these strategies to make things better.

A young woman with a congenital heart defect (CHD) lies on her stomach in bed, reading a book.
Improving sleep in young adults

Young adults often struggle to establish healthful and restorative sleep patterns. These tips can help.

A little girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD), dark hair, and a white dress looks at the camera.
Supporting early learning in young children

Parents and other caregivers can help young children learn the skills and concepts they need before they even enter Kindergarten.

A little boy with a congenital heart defect (CHD) lies on his stomach on a white mattress, wearing headphones and typing on a laptop.
Supporting learning in elementary school students

While kids are in elementary school, parents can use these activities and strategies to help them learn at home.

A middle school boy with a congenital heart defect (CHD) has curly black hair, a white shirt, shorts, and sneakers and stands on a bike path.
Supporting middle school learning

These strategies and activities can help middle school students to make progress in their learning while they are at home.

A girl with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a black T-shirt and has her head resting on her textbook on a table.
Supporting high school learners

These activities can help parents and other family members to support high schoolers in their learning at home.

A young man with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a blue shirt and a baseball hat and a red backpack and stands looking up at a blue sky.
Supporting learning in adulthood

Young adults with congenital heart defects (CHDs) continue to learn and grow. These strategies can help them to build the skills and knowledge they need to reach their goals.

A mother with a green shirt and dark hair nuzzles the cheek of her baby, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD).
Communicating with your baby

When parents learn to communicate with their baby, they are better able to meet their needs and to create a strong emotional bond. This video will teach parents how to interpret and respond to their baby's cues.

A mother holds her infant with a congenital heart defect (CHD) lovingly up to her face.
Helping baby learn through relationships

This video explains how relationships are at the core of a baby's learning and development, and offers advice on ensuring that a baby's first relationships are strong and stable.

A boy with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a red shirt and looks off to the side while other kids exclude him.
Supporting kids dealing with bullying

Children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) are sometimes the victims of bullying. Parents can take these steps to help their children cope and recover, and to reduce or eliminate the bullying behavior.

A slide from Boston Children's Hospital says "Bullying Webinar: Teasing and Illness," and shows the faces of three experts discussing how to protect children from bullying related to illness.
Managing medical bullying

Children with medical or developmental differences can sometimes be subjected to bullying related to their differences. This webinar teaches parents how to protect and support their children.

A child with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a plaid jacket and a black hat and runs joyfully on a sidewalk in front of a cityscape.
Helping your child with ADHD

These videos explain how parents can understand and support their child with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder.

Two women stand on a grassy hillside with their son, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD), and is squatting on the ground petting a dog.
Supporting kids with mental health

Children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sometimes struggle with mental health challenges, but parents and other caregivers can always help them to feel better.

A little boy with a congenital heart defect (CHD) wears a black jacket, backpack, and face mask and sits on concrete front steps.
Helping kids with medical anxiety

Kids with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sometimes develop anxiety about health and medical care. These strategies can help them feel better.

A mom with a tan shirt and black braids holds her little girl, who has a congenital heart defect (CHD) and is wearing a cream colored shirt, in a field of grass.
Managing challenging behaviors

These strategies can help parents and other caregivers to feel confident in managing children's challenging behaviors in a way that promotes their mental health and sense of well-being.

A little boy wth a congenital heart defect (CHD) and blond hair reaches out to take a spoon of liquid medicine from his mom.
Helping your child take medicine by mouth

Parents can use these strategies to help their child to safely and competently swallow medicines.

A mother with a brown bun and a grey sweatshirt sits on the floor, giving liquid medicine to her toddler son, who kneels in front of her and has a congenital heart defect (CHD).
Supporting kids with mental health

Children with congenital heart defects (CHDs) sometimes struggle with mental health challenges, but parents and other caregivers can always help them to feel better.

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