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Services to Support Emotional Learning in Kids

Ages 5 - 12 Years

When children struggle to understand and manage emotions, parents often feel overwhelmed. Luckily, many experts in the community are available to support emotional development and emotional well-being in children with heart defects.

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Help through Special Education

In the United States, children (ages 3-22) with disabilities often qualify for Special Education. Special Education services can teach and support emotional skills. 

Special Education services that can support emotional development include:

  • Occupational Therapy (OT)

  • Speech and Language Therapy

  • Behavior support with a board certified behavior analyst (BCBA)

  • Counseling with a psychologist or social worker

  • The help of an aide

  • Social skills groups

  • Home services

  • Placement in a therapeutic classroom or school

Psychotherapy

Many therapists are experts in helping children to recognize and regulate emotions.  Therapists can be psychologists, social workers, or mental health counselors.

There are many different types of therapy, and families should find a therapist who is a good fit with their values and goals.

Types of therapy that can help children include:

  • Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

  • Exposure Therapy

  • Family Therapy

  • Group Therapy

  • Parent Guidance

  • Play Therapy

  • Psychodynamic Therapy

  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)

Occupational Therapy

Occupational Therapists (OTs) have many different areas of specialty, but all are focused on helping people to participate fully in all aspects of their lives.

OTs can support emotional learning and emotional regulation by:

  • teaching children what they are feeling

  • teaching children to identify the cause of their feelings

  • teaching children how to calm themselves

Families can access OT through their public school system, or through outpatient clinics. Many outpatient OTs accept insurance.

Early Intervention, No Regrets

When emotional problems remain untreated, they tend to get worse. When families notice that their child is struggling with emotional development, they should feel comfortable seeking help promptly.

This content was reviewed by a psychologist at Boston Children's Hospital.

Developmental care is best when it is local. Families local to Boston can receive care from the Cardiac Neurodevelopmental Program (CNP). Families from other regions can use the link below to find their local care team.

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